“Our dear friend Luke, the doctor, and Demas send greetings.” (Colossians 4:14)
“What are you going to be?” That’s the costume-day inspired question we’ve been asking this week as a launching pad to asking, “What are you going to be?” for the rest of your life. What real-life role will you take on as a Christ-follower?
The next role-model we meet from Paul’s entourage turns out to be a negative one. Here he’s included in the posse as one of the guys supporting Paul in prison and sending greetings to the Colossians. But listen to this later letter Paul sent to Timothy:
“Do your best to come to me quickly, for Demas, because he loved this world, has deserted me.” (2 Timothy 4:9-10)
Demas started out on the path of Christ then got distracted by the world and fell in love with it. What is the world? According to John, it includes living for pleasure, possessions, and status. (See 1 John 2:16.)
God gladly gives us some of those things to enjoy, but He demands that we save our love for Him. You cannot love the world and live for Christ at the same time.
Think: Could you ever see yourself falling in love with what the world offers — pleasure, possessions, and status? What can you do to protect your heart from becoming unfaithful to God?
Pray: Ask God to help you to love Him with your whole life and not to be distracted from serving Him by loving the world.
Do: Read (and think about memorizing) 1 John 1:15-17, which describes our choice between loving God and loving the world.
“Epaphras, who is one of you and a servant of Christ Jesus, sends greetings. He is always wrestling in prayer for you, that you may stand firm in all the will of God, mature and fully assured. I vouch for him that he is working hard for you and for those at Laodicea and Hierapolis.” (Colossians 4:12-13)
Tomorrow is the big costume day for some of you. But the question of what kind of Christ-follower you will be will continue for the rest of your life. Paul has another role-model for you.
Epaphras was a Colossian guy with a rep as a muscular pray-er. He approached prayer as battle, and he prayed to win. He “wrestled” in prayer for people. I take that to mean that he saw prayer as so powerful — so critical to changing things for the better — that he was ready to throw down in spiritual warfare or even just against his own attention span.
How hard do we work at praying for others? Do we think of praying as lesser work, as less effective than actually “doing something” like feeding the hungry, telling the gospel, or teaching Sunday School? Maybe we don’t work as hard at prayer because we’re not as convinced that it matters.
Epaphras knew it did, and he fought to do it effectively.
Think: What could you change in your life this week to make more time to do some prayer wrestling? What would you have to wrestle against, do you think, to pray more effectively for others?
Pray: Ask God to give you the strength, wisdom, and courage to wrestle in prayer for others.
Do: Think of three people in your life who need prayer and make a commitment with yourself to spend time praying for them this week
“My fellow prisoner Aristarchus sends you his greetings, as does Mark, the cousin of Barnabas. (You have received instructions about him; if he comes to you, welcome him.)” (Colossians 4:10)
In dressing up for school parties today, my preschooler has already been a football player and Spider-Man. I wish it was that easy to become like the best of the Jesus-followers. But that takes commitment, preparation and, well, beginning.
Today’s role-model (from Paul’s entourage of ministry teammates listed in Colossians 4) is a guy called Mark, tagged forever as “Barnabas’s cousin.” In fact, Mark is the guy who contributed to splitting up the dynamic missionary duo of Paul and Barnabas.
Mark went AWOL after joining them on a missionary journey, leaving the pair in the lurch. When it came time for the next trip, Paul wouldn’t take him. Barnabas wouldn’t leave him. So the friends went two different directions.
Here, though, we see that later on Mark has been there for Paul in prison — and Paul may even be sending Mark on a mission to the Colossians. He earned his way back on the team by starting again and being faithful to following Christ. Mark shows us that one big failure doesn’t have to be the end our service to the Lord; we can start again.
We must start again.
Think: Have you avoided serving Christ on a deeper level because you’ve failed in some obvious or painful way? Do you feel disqualified to use your life up for Jesus? What would keep you from starting again to humbly serve God in a new way?
Pray: If you’ve sidelined yourself from service to Christ because of a big failure in your life, ask God to give you the courage to start serving again. If you haven’t been sidelined, think of someone who has and pray for that person today.
Do: Read about the breakup of Paul and Barnabas in Acts 15:36-41 and then check out what else Paul says about Mark later on in 2 Timothy 4:11.
“My fellow prisoner Aristarchus sends you his greetings.” (Colossians 4:10)
What kind of Christ-follower will you be? You may or may not want to dress up like that for Halloween (if you do that kind of thing), but it’s still an important question to answer. We’re mining Paul’s ministry buddies mentioned in Colossians 4 for ideas.
Of all those buddies, Aristrarchus is the only one Paul calls a “fellow prisoner.” Since Paul likely wrote these words as a prisoner in Rome for preaching about Jesus, it makes sense that Aristarchus might have been under arrest for the same thing.
That would mean that even though he wasn’t the apostle, the head guy, he was still willing to lose his freedom to tell others about Christ. It sounds like He took Jesus’ words seriously: “Anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.” (Matthew 10:38-39)
Jesus is looking for followers willing to lose it all for His sake, willing to sacrifice everything to walk the path He’s called them to. Are you an Aristarchus?
Think: Have you ever considered what you might be willing to give up to live for Jesus? Do you think you would be more or less likely to tell others about His plan for salvation if it meant risking your life?
Pray: Ask God to help you to be willing to risk everything to follow the path He’s called you to walk.
Do: Want to know more about persecution in the early church? Read this interesting article from Probe Ministries.
[ October 31, 2009; ] Can you say “FREE CANDY!”
Grab a younger sibling or rent a niece or nephew for the night and get out there for your share of the loot!
BTW – be nice to the other kiddies, keep your celebrating clean and have fun! No regrets…
LOL, the mask is funny but this flu isn’t. Swine flu, or should we say, “H1N1″ is running rampant across this country and wiping people out. Thank the Lord that most are only getting sick.
What are you thinking or feeling about this whole flu thing?
What about the vaccine? Will you take the shot or not?
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“He is coming with Onesimus, our faithful and dear brother, who is one of you. They will tell you everything that is happening here.” (Colossians 4:9)
The question of the week is “what are you going to be?” We’d love to know your costume of choice, but what we’re really talking about is what kind of Christ-follower you’re going to be. And we’re looking for inspiration from Paul’s entourage in Colossians 4.
Our next role model is a thieving runaway slave — but that’s not the role model part. Onesimus had been a slave in Colosse in the home of his wealthy master Philemon, a Christian. Apparently, Onesimus robbed Philemon and ran away to Rome, where he somehow met Paul, became a Christian, and became very dear to Paul.
Here’s the role model part: Onesimus went back to make things right with Philemon (with a very high letter of recommendation from Paul). Even though most of us would agree that slavery is an evil institution, Onesimus refused to justify his sin.
Think: Have you done anything sinful that needs to be owned up to and made right? Is that thing standing in the way somehow of your service to Christ? What do you need to do this week to confess and repent of that so you can move on?
Pray: Ask God to help you to take responsibility for any sin you have committed against another person. Ask Him for the opportunity, courage, and humility to make it right.
Do: Read Paul’s letter of recommendation for Onesimus in the tiny little book of Philemon. Notice how Paul talks about the then culturally accepted practice of slavery within the larger context of Christianity
“Tychicus will tell you all the news about me. He is a dear brother, a faithful minister and fellow servant in the Lord. I am sending him to you for the express purpose that you may know about our circumstances and that he may encourage your hearts.” (Colossians 4:7-8)
For better or worse, it’s Halloween week and the big question in grade schools across the land is this: “What are you going to be?”
It’s a question the Bible asks a lot, too, and this week we’re going to look at some of Paul’s suggestions. I’m not sure they’d make for great costumes, but in Colossians 4 he lists some excellent role models from his friends in ministry. Each of them has qualities we can put on to become more like Christ.
The first is Tychicus, a man from Asia who Paul mentions in three other books of the Bible as a major part of the ministry team. Tychicus was headed toward the Colossians with two jobs: reporter and encourager.
You can be a Tychicus by making it your job to notice and tell others about the great things God is doing around you and by taking on the role of an encourager. Some travel may be required, but you’ll be one of the most important members of the team.
Think: How hard do you work to notice what God is doing in your life and the lives of those around you? When you do notice, who do you tell? Who have you encouraged this week?
Pray: Ask God to help you to be like Tychicus by telling others about what He’s doing and by being an encourager.
This is SUPER important!
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